First of all, I know you like gist. I know you probably want to know my motive for doing PDA. I’ll tell you. But then, you won’t be reading my motive for Public Display of Affection but my motive for Personal Development Activities vis-a-vis love and “forever together” 😀😀.
The quest for personal development is a selfless journey even though the focus is on ‘self’. Self development takes into cognisance the fact that life cannot be lived in isolation. Whoever and whatever you are and do, there is a big chance you would affect others.
If you are a bad man, others will bear the brunt as much you do. If you are a good man, people will reap the benefits as much as you do.
If you are a bad man, others will bear the brunt as much you do. If you are a good man, people will reap the benefits as much as you do. Even the Bible says, “When the righteous are in authority, the people rejoice; but when a wicked man rules, the people groan.” [Prov. 29:2 NKJV]
One of the things that are non-negotiable for me is a happy and lovely marriage even in the midst of imperfections. When I started taking personal development seriously, especially as touching being a better man, I had in mind not just myself but the one I’ll call “my lady” for life.
I considered asking a woman out, she agrees. Some years or even months down the line, she regrets ever agreeing to spend the rest of her life with me. I imagined what a life of misery that would be for me and most importantly, for her.
I never want to be the reason another man’s daughter will lead a miserable life. I never want to be the source of headache for the one who had her life going well until I decided to ‘interfere’. It really breaks my heart when a woman loses her peace because of a man she allowed into her emotional space.
No one is perfect. But likewise, no one deserves a dickhead man or woman.
Truly, no one is perfect. But likewise, no one deserves a dickhead man or woman. Fix yourself. Don’t be a burden to be borne by the one who allowed you into their lives.
Like M.I. told his fellow rappers, you boys and girls should fix up your lives. Life is too short to be unhappy. Life is too long to live it bearing an avoidable human burden!